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Key changes in the nature of work and performance.

very educational and interesting

The Ordinary Man Is Heroic

discluded but not forgotten

Chicago Days/Hoboken Nights

Fun, simple story

unapologetic in its philosophyWere it more available, it would be quite controversial as it is WAY out of the mainstream. Greenberg is writing about his own experiences as a parent, teacher, and former child. Each chapter is devoted to a different topic. Some examples follow:
The Decision to Have a Child - Don't have children until you're ready to take the responsibility.
Nursing - You're a mammal. Mammals nurse their young.
The Years One to Four - This is the true adolescence and should be treated as such. These years will be difficult and you must be strong to get through them effectively.
Ages Four and Up - Older children have all the same reasoning capability as you do, and should be treated accordingly, with freedom, respect, AND responsibility.
Sleeping - Sleep with your kids, and don't force them to go to sleep when they don't want to. Everyone sleeps and will sleep eventually.
Eating - Provide a variety of healthy foods. Your child will take it from there.
This is just a smattering of Greenberg's childrearing philosophy, which he presents unapologetically in a readable, intellegent format. Perhaps because this book was not printed to be a bestseller, he does not try to pander or appeal to everyone. Not everyone will like this book. But it's a GEM for parents who want to raise self-reliant, compassionate kids.
Incidentally, I've met Greenberg's son, and he seems to have turned out pretty well!


I''ve loved this book

Excellent resource for parents -- and moreIn the first half of the book Homma Sensei gives a very detailed and convincing account of how he came to the martial arts (and aikido in particular), and how this has shaped his practice as a teacher. He gives many easily-recognizable examples of conversations he's had with parents who want to enroll their kids in his classes. These would be comical if not true, but they serve to illustrate many of the wrong reasons parents want kids to participate in martial arts.
In the second half, he gives examples of many of the exercises children in his aikido classes perform, accompanied by black-and-white line drawings. These would be very helpful for parents with a child in aikido (as a way to understand what the children are doing, and to help them practice at home), but certainly can *not* substitute for the expert guidance of a certified instructor.
Interestingly, even though I bought this book [ostensibly] for the day my son might show an interest in coming to the dojo with me, it was very useful for my own aikido training. Homma Sensei stresses personal responsibility, as well as the "right" reasons for studying aikido, and I found this refreshing as a beginner myself. [It was also useful, in reading another of his books (Aikido for Life), as he gives a rather detailed account of his own study of aikido in this one -- which helps one understand why he feels the way he does about certain aspects of training.]
Highly recommended.


four starsBeing a novice food person, many many of the terms I didn't know. It might be helpful to have a glossary or even a floorplan of the restaurant (maybe the hardcover edition has this). Also, when writing dialog, Brenner often has one person asking a question of someone else but it never gets answered. Or there might be an answer but it's to a different question in a different conversation altogether. I'm sure the confusion of the reader parallels the confusion of a worker in a restaurant kitchen. Regardless, it was at times very hard to follow. I would have liked to have read more about the servers, who are called captains at Daniel. The sommelier, reservationists, bartender, maitre d', cheese person and many others all had a lot of coverage, but the servers, who really present the face of the restaurant to the client, were not covered in detail.
as fun as it is invitingThe chef seems so fun and fast moving and like he's actually daring you to read on and try a recipe. In the very least, I know I'll try to recreate one of the yummy sounding staff meal dishes. As for the beautifully illustrated eight course tasting menu I guess I'll just read longingly - or - go ahead and make reservations.
In this context, in Chapter Seven - 'Leadership and the Nature of Performance', Robert G. Lord and Wendy Gradwohl Smith argue that the relation between leadership and performance is likely to increase while at the same time exercising effective leadership may become more difficult because of: (1). increased diversity in experience and technical training will reduce the degree to which organizational members share common performance standards, (2). greater ethnic, racial, and gender diversiy will increase the potential tensions among team members due to less homogeneous values and beliefs.Thus, they argue that this increased diversity creates greater need for leaders to define performance and manage group conflict effectively, and hence they construct a leadership model. On the other side, they summarize some of the important trends noted by other authors of this book that will affect the relationship of leadership to performance as follows:
I. In the Past:
1. Work organization: (a). Map job onto employee, (b). Relative ease in identifying KSAOs.
2. Design of jobs: (a). Stable jobs, (b). Common elements of jobs shared among a number of people.
3. Technology: (a). Relative ease in identifying individual and technological contributions to performance, (b). Little performance monitoring using technology.
4. Control of performance: Internal sources used for performance standards.
5. Meaning of performance: Performance defined by past behavior.
6. Leadership and supervision: Traditional leadership and supervision.
7. Part-time and temporary workers: Minimal concern for commitment to organization, learning, and development due to the stability and structure of jobs.
II. Current Trend:
1. Work organization: (a). Map job onto team, (b). More or different KSAOs and greater difficulty identifying KSAOs.
2. Design of jobs: (a). Less stable jobs, (b). Common elements of jobs shared among fewer people.
3. Technology: (a). Confounding individual and technological contributions to performance, (b). Greater performance monitoring using technology.
4. Control of performance: External sources used for performance standards.
5. Meaning of performance: (a). Performance defined by future behavior, continuous learning, (b). Different cultural views of good performance.
6. Leadership and supervision: Leadership that emphasizes skill development, teams, and identities.
7. Part-time and temporary workers: Greater concern for commitment to organization, learning, and development due to the instability and team-based nature of jobs.
I higly recommend this book as a whole for HR professionals.